do you talk about marathons?
This past weekend I attended the wedding of one of my close friends from college. He and I worked together for 4 years and shared the same circle of friends. It was SOOO much fun to be at the wedding for the weekend. I got to see and catch up with people that I haven’t seen in years. People are married, some have kids, others are living in exotic places. I’m always amazed with my instant regression back to childish behavior when I’m around my childhood friends. (In this case “childhood” being college.) It really does feel like a former life, but the moment I am surrounded with the people from that time period, I feel like the same person I was back then. Which isn’t necessarily a bad thing…aside from a few non-awesome dating experiences…I had an awesome college experience!
The weird thing was that I spent the whole weekend not talking about running or marathons at all. It’s definitely one of the biggest parts of my life these days, but for some reason I never found the opportunity to mention it at all. I’m not sure if I avoided it on purpose or if it just never came up. Part of me gets shy around people I know that won’t understand. It’s either “Oh my! You’re downright crazy!” or “How far is a marathon?” or “4 hours? That’s long…” None of which are responses that I care to deal with. So I just choose to omit my training from polite conversation.
Am I ashamed of my obsession with running? No. I’m just trying to not become like those people who can talk of nothing but their dog/cat/baby/collection of twine. I know that I’m overly obsessed with running, but I like to think that I have the social graces to know when and where to show my true colors.
All in all, it was a fabulous Labor Day weekend. And horror of all horrors, I did not run one step. Instead I remembered what late nights and early mornings feel like when its more about people than pavement.

